Sole Custodian Moved to Maine from Michigan, Estranged mother slapped me with a PPO for Abuse. Help Please?
November 11th, 2010Here is a letter that I sent to my DHS worker.
Any supportive information or answers will be appreciated.
Hi Kandi, Brady and I have a big problem and we need help. I am pasting an e-mail that I sent to a lawyer I found online but who is from portland. I really need you to read this and let me know what we can do to recover Brady and prevent this from happening again.
My 6 yr old son was born in Hawaii in 2002, I am a single father and have raised him alone since 2004 and due to the economy in Michigan, My son and I and I returned to a family homestead Downeast to be closer to my family as opposed to looking for new ground. My son and I are the only residents in our home. I have sole custody and have permitted visitation to mother during summer and spring albeit spring visits Never happened…. She never came to us. I took him to Maine or met 1/2 way for the summer trips.
Since I have returned to Maine My son is in school and we are adjusting well, My son is active and diagnosed ADHD he injures himself often “Minor” Thank goodness. But none the less I took him to his mother for a july visit and wound up being served a PPO by her in behalf of my son. She took him to a Dr and the Doc says that he has bruises that could be caused by abuse. He told his mom that dad gets mad at me…. He is a good kid and is treated well by everyone especially me. We love each other and we are kind to each other. Fact is that my son was playing in a tree with one of his friends before we went to see her and a week or two prior had Klanged himself but good in a rock at a birthday party. There were several adults present. If there are genuine signes of abuse then I fear that he may have been mishandled by his mother or another family member. I have no way of knowing.
I cannot see or talk to his mother until court date on 7-20-09 according to PPO. It appears that I am completely out of the loop. The things she said about me in the ppo statement are inconsionable and untrue. I feel that I need to hire an attorney and I am at a loss. Our custody case was filed and executed in Michigan.
How can his estranged mother take control of him like this? I fear that it is going to cause us serious financial hardship at the very least and I was not consulted by the Dr or his mother about this.
My opinion is that it is a very reckless immature desperate attempt to vindicate herself emotionally by hurting me and taking a pot shot at getting custody of her son.
Am I in Trouble here?
Sir, if nothing else,
PLEASE help me to select the right and respected attorney in Houlton Maine to recover from this as well and finally as possible.
Kind Regards, Feeling quite manipulated.
Steven
The claims of abuse are unsubstantiated. Let me clarify that I do not hurt my child. Please provide feedback based on experience or knowledge.
Indeed, He Loves his mother. He is desperate to please her. He has been in Maine since March and only seen his mother 3 times and they were only weekend visits. He has a new sister who his mom is now raising alone since she has declared herself to have an absolute dislike for men and kicked her husband out of the house. No Kidding, Genuine Bipolar. The whole story is too much. She is a genuine liar. and Yes I do get mad at him. But When I am mad, I make it clear by using my upset voice and non abusive redirection.
I hear you. That really hits home. And Believe me His mother knows this.
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